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“Emotions that have to do with loss are triggered throughout our lives, and you will live with them,” says Mary C.

I knew that even as I started dating, I still had to continue to fill my own life with my own positive activities, people, and feelings; I could not put the pressure on someone else to fill Mark’s place—if I did, neither one of us would ever be truly happy. After several pages I started to wonder if I was just being extremely critical because I wasn’t ready.

Third, I needed to fully embrace the feeling of being attracted to another person. But in that same moment, I stumbled upon a profile of an attractive man whose profile made me smile.

Mary Ellen Barrett shared her story of loss at Catholic

After experiencing the loss of her son Ryan, two years later her mother, at the young age of 65, passed away from complications due to early onset Alzheimer’s disease.

I felt guilty even thinking about the possibility and could not fathom the idea of dating so soon after my husband had died. I was worried you would never want to date again after Mark.

I buried this idea along with the letter knowing I would re-enter the dating scene in my own time. I was by myself at the grocery store and I looked up to find a man watching me with an interested look in his eye. I called him and asked him what he thought about me dating. I’m so happy you are considering it.” Her response wasn’t what I expected, but from both her and my father-in-law’s answers I felt better about moving forward.

To my surprise, I found myself feeling attracted to him. This innocent exchange of glances made me uncomfortable, but only in a sense that I realized I was no longer a married woman but an available single one. First, I needed to be willing to discuss dating with people who I was close to. He said genuinely that he wanted me to be happy and that he knew Mark would want me to be happy too. I wasn’t sure what she would say and was shocked when she didn’t say anything. Second, I needed to know that I wouldn’t be dating to just fill a void. However I had met Mark online and thought it was a good place to start. It felt a little uncomfortable to be searching for a ‘new’ man after being with one man for ten years.

He didn’t hesitate to give me his blessing to date whoever and whenever I wanted. I knew that the void that Mark’s death left in my life would never be filled the same way that Mark filled it. As I scanned through the results not many of the profiles interested me.

In setting boundaries in my love life, I genuinely found myself.

And finally I realized that I could be with a man and, furthermore, consider having a future with someone other than Mark.

We must learn to give these feelings their place and to accept that the person we are now is a person who will never walk without that abiding sadness keeping them company. Vague offers of “call me if you need anything” will likely not be taken up. These communications can seem overwhelming to a bereaved person, so just keep in touch and know your concern is appreciated. My family received many such gifts, and we treasure them all.

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