datingbureau rotterdam - Dating someone 13 years older

Don’t start changing things about yourself to mold into wifey-material, just because he knows he wants to settle down soon.

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If he works construction for six months of the year and lives on unemployment the remaining months, you can expect that scenario to continue.

He smokes pot every night to get to sleep, he won't be changing that habit for you.

You have not said how old you are and that makes a huge difference to the advantage/disadvantage equation.

The older and more mature you are, the smaller the inequities in a 13-year age difference become.

I can think of one acquaintance (on the autism spectrum) who at 30 years old behaved more like a bright, but slightly troubled, 13 year old than like the unemployed Ph. His health may deteriorate, especially if he has not take care of his body. If you are not, things ain't workin' for long.4. If you are in the 18-early twenties range, he may not be interested in much more than casually dating and fucking like rabbits.

If he became seriously ill in a few years, are you ready to devote potentially years of your prime to being his nursemaid? If he introduces you to his age peers, they will all think he is dating you for the sex rather than for LTR interest.

He may already know you are not appropriate LTR material so probably has more limited goals in dating you.

Now that might be fine, if you also have limited goals (I.e., you just want the excitement of dating an older guy for six months) but if you feel more serious and he one day dumps you for a woman nearer to his age, you are going to be hurt.6. If he isn't already a brilliant doctor, he isn't going to become one.

Try a new type of food (and pitch in to pay from time to time), or if you must stay cooped up in the house, pull out the Dominoes.

You don’t have to hit up a nightclub every weekend, but you definitely don’t want to spend too many weekends being the coupled up couch potatoes.

But for the most part, suggesting a range of fun things that don’t become repetitive could get him out of his set ways slowly but surely. Like I said, if you allow it, things can get pretty dull.

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